National Grief Awareness Week. The Grief That Starts Before Goodbye

Grief is not a single moment. It isn’t just the final breath, the last phone call, or the quiet closing of a door.  Grief can begin long before goodbye, long before we even have the words to name it.

For many, grief arrives as a slow unravelling, not a sudden strike, but a quiet, physical breaking that aches through the body long before the heart understands why. It comes in waves that feel confusing and lonely, the shock that something is changing, the denial that whispers maybe it’s not as bad as it seems, the anger that flares at the unfairness of it all, the bargaining with life, doctors, hope itself. Then come the heavy days of depression, the weary acceptance, and eventually, gently the integration, when grief becomes something we fold into our lives instead of fight against. These seven stages don’t follow rules or order. They loop, repeat, collide. Grief is messy because love is messy.

And nowhere is this more true than in dementia.

The grief of losing someone who is still here

When someone we love is living with a Dementia, we lose them in pieces.

The person we once knew, their stories, their jokes, the way they said our name, slowly fades away. You find yourself grieving a laugh that no longer comes, a conversation that now circles endlessly, the spark in their eyes that used to recognise you in an instant.

It is a grief that feels almost invisible, because the world often expects grief to follow death. But here, death has not come, only the quiet, painful vanishing of the person you remember. And that raises a question many carry in their hearts - is this grief any different from the grief that follows death?

In truth, it isn’t.

The pain is real. The loss is real. The longing is real.

It is grief in slow motion, stretched across months or years, demanding a different kind of strength, the strength to keep loving with your whole heart, even as the person you love fades before your eyes.

As National Grief Awareness Week approaches, it encourages us to recognise this quieter grief for what it is. The theme “Growing with Grief” reminds us that grief doesn’t fade just because someone is still here. Instead, we grow around the ache. We adjust our hearts, reshape our routines, and learn to love the person in front of us while mourning the person they used to be.

In the everyday moments, grief lies quietly

In social care, grief isn’t rare or loud, it lives quietly in the day-to-day. It appears in the trembling smile of a son who repeats himself again and again, trying to hold back the grief of knowing his Dad no longer remembers the world they once shared.  In the soft sigh of a wife watching the person she married drift further into a world she cannot enter.  In the long pause before a carer answers the same question again, and again, and again - with kindness, because they know it isn’t really the question that matters, but the reassurance behind it.

These moments rarely make headlines, but they shape the days of those who love, and those who care.

Within this grief, something else grows too.  A tenderness that wasn’t there before. A fierce patience. A love that holds on, even through the cracks and the hurt.

Families learn to hold on to the moments that are still left - a warm hand held tightly, a flicker of recognition, a shared song that somehow still reaches the heart. They are small moments, but they become everything.

You don’t have to carry grief alone

National Grief Awareness Week is a reminder that grief isn’t something we should carry alone. When we talk about it, it becomes a little lighter. Stories connect us. Sharing brings comfort.

The Good Grief Trust continues to shine a light for anyone walking through loss, whether that loss is sudden, expected, complicated, or stretched across years of dementia.  No one should feel isolated in their grief, especially when their heart feels fragile.

This week is a chance to reach out, to talk, to really listen, and to give your grief some room, not to fix it or make it disappear, but to let a little hope grow alongside it.

National Grief Awareness Week runs from 2nd–8th December 2025

 

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Finding the Right Rhythm: How Music Brings Connection to a North Devon Nursing Home

At Heanton Nursing Home in Braunton, music isn’t just background noise, it’s a source of comfort and connection.

For family members living with a Dementia, the right song can create a sense of calm, familiarity and belonging, moments that lift the atmosphere and bring people together. Robin Mitchell, who leads regular sing-alongs at the home, has seen first-hand how powerful music can be, and how important it is to get it right.

The music filling the lounge at Heanton might surprise people. Rather than relying on traditional wartime tunes, the playlists are shaped around the eras that today’s older adults grew up with - the 1960s and 70s.

Research into dementia and the brain has shown that the music people listen to in their teens and twenties tends to stay with them throughout life. According to Dementia UK, those years form strong emotional connections in the brain, meaning familiar songs from that period can create a sense of comfort and recognition, even decades later.

For Heanton’s family members, that means the sound of Sweet Caroline (released in 1969), ABBA, or Tom Jones is often what gets toes tapping and faces lighting up. Music from that era isn’t just nostalgic, it’s part of peoples lived experience, connected to the times they were working, raising families or even dancing at the weekend.

“When the right song comes on, you can see the change,” says Robin. “Someone who’s quiet might start tapping their feet, moving with the rhythm or joining in with a few words. It’s like the music gives everyone a lift.” 

Studies by the NHS, Dementia UK and Alzheimer’s Society have long supported this approach, showing that familiar, preferred music can help reduce anxiety, encourage communication and social interaction, and promote a sense of wellbeing. It can also offer peace and comfort at more reflective moments.

Robin adds, “Even a song that brings a tear can be a positive thing, it helps people express how they feel. Everyone connects to music in their own way, and that’s what makes it special.”

Music plays an important role at Heanton. As a complex care home, someone’s feelings is an important part of truly understanding each person they support. Noticing the small things, tuning into emotions, and anticipating needs long before they’re expressed. Robin’s singalongs are a perfect example of this approach, using music to reach family members on an emotional level, helping them create moments of connection and enjoyment that feel familiar, personal and real.

To find out more about the care and support offered at Heanton Nursing Home, visit Dementia, Complex, Respite, and Residential Care in Devon

Lighting Up the Sky and the Community at a North Devon Nursing Home

By the time the first firework burst above the trees at Heanton Nursing Home, the grounds were filled with families, children in bright coats and people arriving with umbrellas. There was laughter, conversation and that unmistakable sense of community.

Residents (who they fondly refer to as family members) were wrapped in blankets and supported outside so they could be part of it all. Seeing them among the crowd, smiling as the fireworks lit up the sky, was one of the highlights of the evening. Many visitors commented on how special it was to see everyone, young and old, sharing the night side by side.

The BBQ ran non-stop, with people queueing for hot food made on-site using locally sourced meats from Reeds Butchers in Braunton, the same butcher that provides the meals enjoyed by family members every day. “You can taste when something’s local,” one visitor said.

Several people mentioned they hadn’t planned to do anything for Bonfire Night this year but decided to come along after seeing Heanton’s invitation. What might have been an ordinary evening at home instead became a night filled with laughter and conversation. Local councillor Graham Bell attended with his family and spoke with team members and visitors throughout the evening, sharing that sense of community that filled the grounds.

By the end of the night, £226 had been raised, which will go directly towards making Christmas special for the family members who call Heanton home. As people began to leave, almost everyone said the same thing, that they hoped this would happen again next year.

Although Heanton is known in the community as a complex nursing home, evenings like this show there’s so much more to it than that. It is a home full of life, laughter and connection, a place where family members are supported to take part, and where the community is always welcome to join in.

It’s a reminder that complex care doesn’t mean life has to be lived apart.

To read more about the events and people at Heanton-  News & Blogs - Heanton Nursing Home - Devon Nursing Home

Remembrance Day Creative Tribute at North Devon Nursing Home

Edenmore Nursing Home in Ilfracombe, North Devon honoured Remembrance Day with a week of meaningful activities designed to encourage reflection, creativity, and connection.

Family members – the home’s affectionate term for residents – took part in poppy-themed arts and crafts, painting and decorating handmade tributes which are now displayed throughout the home. On Remembrance Sunday, the home gathered together to watch the televised national service, offering a shared moment for those wishing to pay their respects.

Home Manager Gayle Cooper shared:

‘Remembrance Day holds deep significance for many of our family members – whether through personal memories, relatives who served, or simply the wish to pay tribute to those who gave so much. It is an emotional day for many, and we make sure to honour it in every way we can.’

Edenmore Nursing Home is the only nursing home in Ilfracombe, offering the reassurance of 24-hour nursing care so that help is always available when needed, without delays or waiting for support to arrive. 

To find out more, visit https://www.edenmorenursinghome.com/

Nursing Home Celebrates Diwali, The Festival of Lights

Hatherleigh Nursing Home in Okehampton, Devon, celebrated Diwali, the Hindu festival of lights, with a day dedicated to culture, cuisine, and community.

The home, which supports individuals on a cognitive journey, marked the occasion with traditional food, music, dancing, and colourful decorations. Team members from the Hindu community shared their culture with family members (residents) and colleagues, creating an inclusive and engaging experience for everyone.

Members of the kitchen team, Gurjeet and Jisho, prepared a delicious menu of traditional Indian dishes, including sweet and sour cauliflower, beef curry with vegetable rice, chickpea curry, and vermicelli pudding — all of which were enjoyed by everyone.

The team transformed the dining room and lounge with colourful decorations and lights, creating a welcoming and immersive space where family members, team members, and visitors could come together. Everyone enjoyed watching a traditional Hindu dance performance by a team member, while others came in on their day off and brought their children along, adding an intergenerational element to the celebration.

The Devon Nursing Home said “We’re proud to have such a diverse team and to share in the spirit of Diwali - a time of light, renewal and community. Wishing happiness and peace to all who mark the occasion.”

If you would like to learn more about Hatherleigh Nursing Home, please visit https://www.hatherleighnursinghome.com/lifes-journey-continued/

Storybook Magic: Winnie the Pooh Lunch Delights Edenmore Residents

What began as a simple Mad Hatter’s Tea Party for World Book Lovers Day in 2024 has led to the creation of The Edenmore Book Club, led by Home Admin Sarah Dullaghan, offering moments of connection and comfort for residents, fondly referred to as family members.

Each book club meeting involves Sarah reading a chapter of a book aloud, surrounded by themed decorations and food throughout the home that the whole team get involved with! In the past, family members have enjoyed timeless classics such as Peter Rabbit, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, and Paddington, with the latest example being Winnie the Pooh for World Book Day.

A Community Effort

This year’s Winnie the Pooh afternoon was made even more special with generous donations from the Ilfracombe community, with Winnie the Pooh soft toys being gifted to the home. Family members were encouraged to sit back, close their eyes, and enjoy the storytelling over a glass of nosecco (alcohol-free sparkling wine), creating a relaxed and engaging atmosphere.

Shared Memories

Many family members shared how the event brought back ‘happy memories’ of reading Winnie the Pooh to their own children and grandchildren. Sarah reflected on the impact of these gatherings, saying, ‘Their smiles and reactions brought the story to life for me!’’

More Than Just a Book Club

The Edenmore Book Club is about more than just reading, it’s a space for sharing stories, reminiscing, and creating meaningful moments together. Held in the main lounge, it remains easily accessible to all, where family members can choose to be involved in the activities, reinforcing the home’s commitment to recognising the values, beliefs, and identity of each person who calls Edenmore Nursing Home their home.

 

 For more about life at Edenmore Nursing Home, 

visit: www.edenmorenursinghome.com

The Sundial Summer Fair

Sundial Care Home in Tipton St John hosted its Summer Fair in their three-acre grounds, drawing strong support from family members (residents), relatives, members of the community, and volunteers for an afternoon of activities, stalls, and entertainment to celebrate the end of the summer season.

Visitors enjoyed a range of games, including Guess How Many Sweets Are in the Jar, Name the Teddy, Hook a Duck, and the ever-popular Splat the Rat. The fair also featured a variety of stalls, such as hair braiding, a book stall, locally handmade children’s clothes, tea and coffee, cake sale, face painting and more.

Singer Zara King provided live entertainment throughout the afternoon which had a couple of family members dancing non-stop, and later announced the winners of the raffle as the day came to a close. Signature mocktails were served by small business Botanic, alongside ice creams from the East Devon Ices van. Local neighbours Bella and her mum Liz sold home-baked cakes to support Bella’s school trip to New York and Hospice Care also supported the fair with a tombola stall.

Team members brought along their children to enjoy the activities and help run stalls, creating opportunities for intergenerational connections within the home. Leftover books and prizes from the stalls have since been donated to the Tipton Fete, ensuring the community continues to benefit from the day’s success.

Sundial Care Home is nestled in the heart of Tipton St John, and has long been known for their strong community involvement. The care home places great importance on maintaining strong community connections for those who live there, supporting their wellbeing and sense of identity. Many family members come from the surrounding area, and events like the Summer Fair support them to stay close to their community, while also giving those from further afield the chance to build new community connections.

If you would like to learn more about Sundial Care Home, please visit https://www.sundialcare.com/lifes-journey-continued/

Ilfracombe Soapbox Derby – Edenmore Wheels to Glory

Edenmore Nursing Home is no stranger to getting involved in an array of activities for their residents (fondly referred to as family members) to choose to be involved in, however not normally ones that involve four wheels and rolling through Ilfracombe! I am of course, talking about the recent Soapbox Derby, put on by Ilfracombe Round Table to support their own charity, as well as Children’s Hospice South West.

From the moment the idea was announced to take part (and sponsor the event too!), the nursing home was keen to include as many people as possible. The team, family members and their relatives got together to plan Edenmore’s soapbox kart. In true community style, everyone pitched in – from the hands-on builders of the kart with drills and saws (thanks Gayle Cooper, Home Manager’s husband and grandson!) to family members offering design ideas, colour schemes, and even a few cheeky suggestions for how to make it go faster! The result was a colourful, Edenmore shaped kart that looked right at home among the other imaginative entries.

Race day saw team members making the short walk down to the town and joining the buzzing streets of Ilfracombe. Families lined the route, the sun was shining, music was playing, and the atmosphere was one of pure community spirit. Edenmore was the first kart to attempt the course involving sharp corners, ramps and lots of hay bales (which Captain Jesu made friends with on the test run!).

Team member Jesu shared ‘manuvering down the course was quite challenging! The steering was all over the place as the kart was not designed to have a house built on it – but I had so much fun and the turnout was absolutely amazing – bring on next year!’

‘It was just brilliant to be part of the first-ever derby,’ shared Gayle. ‘The atmosphere was electric, and the community spirit made all the hard work worth it. We’ve already started talking about ideas for next year!’

As the day came to a close, it was clear the Soapbox Derby had sparked something special in the community. Edenmore was proud to help launch what is sure to become a new Ilfracombe tradition.

For more information about Edenmore Nursing Home, please visit: www.edenmorenursinghome.com

Sun, Sea and Surfboards – Ilfracombe Nursing Home’s Summer Garden Party

Edenmore Nursing Home recently celebrated the warm weather with a summer garden party, complete with inflatable instruments, a colourful array of decorations and a hula skirt or 2! The North Devon nursing home, close to the seaside, involved the residents (known as family members) and their families, as well as inviting the community to join the festivities

The Ilfracombe Nursing Home hosted the beachboys themed garden party in the outdoor space in front of the home, with team members spending the morning decorating it with flags, balloons, wetsuits and surfboards (before adorning their best Hawaii outfits) for family members to be surprised when the party started in the afternoon! As well as being treated to mocktails under parasols, there was inflatable limbo that some family members chose to join in with, all while enjoying the music from DJ Ricky.

Home Manager Gayle shared ‘we had an absolutely amazing afternoon, the weather, BBQ, DJ Ricky were fab, thank you to everyone who helped set up and celebrate with us!’

Edenmore offers a variety of activities for family members to join in with at their own pace, including painting, flower arranging, and light exercise classes, the summer garden party is just one example of these activities!

To find out more, please read about Edenmore’s Activities in Care HERE

A Day in the Life - From Domestic to Care Assistant at Devon Care Home

At Edenmore Nursing Home in Ilfracombe, care is more than a job – it’s a community, a purpose, and a chance to be part of something bigger than yourself. Every act of kindness, every shared smile, and every moment of support adds up to something truly meaningful. Our team is united by the desire to make a real difference in people’s lives. Every member brings their own story, their own spark, and their own strengths, working together to create a place of dignity, compassion, and belonging. Being a care assistant at Edenmore means knowing that what you do each day matters – not just to those you care for, but to the whole community.

Daisy is one such person - this is the story of someone who began by keeping things clean and tidy in the background, playing a vital role in creating a safe, welcoming environment. Over time, she found her purpose on the frontline of care, growing into a different role where she continues to support others and make a meaningful impact. Her journey shows that at Edenmore, every role matters – and everyone has the opportunity to grow and find meaning in the work they do.

When someone starts at Edenmore, regardless of their position whether in care, domestic, maintenance or any other role, everyone takes part in the same training. This shared foundation means that everyone understands the core values of compassion, dignity, and person-centred care. It also opens up the possibility for growth and change. If someone, like Daisy, discovers a different passion or calling after joining, they already have the knowledge and support to explore that new path.

Daisy’s Journey in to Care

Having moved from Birmingham to North Devon in 2023, Daisy joined the Edenmore team at just 18 as a Domestic Assistant, keeping the home clean, safe and homely. As a Domestic Assistant, you naturally begin forming relationships with the people living in the home but without being directly involved in their personal care. Over time, Daisy felt drawn to becoming more involved; to support the family members she’d built connections with in a more meaningful and personal way. It was this connection that led her to explore a new career path in care.

Foundations of Care

Daisy first spoke with Gayle, Edenmore’s Home Manager, and shared that she felt she would find greater fulfilment working in a care role. Gayle encouraged her to explore this further, and she was soon put forward for shadow shifts, where she joined a new team - learning the role while working together towards the shared goal of maintaining dignity, encouraging independence and a continuation of life for family members.

A Typical Day at Edenmore

Mornings

‘A day to day at Edenmore begins at 7:30am when we take handover from the nurse in charge and find out everything that happened on their evening shift. I do enjoy working both night and day shifts so sometimes I'm hearing from the night or the day team. Handover is both a lovely way to check in with the team before the shift over a coffee or tea. This could include a new family member joining, an upcoming event that day, or that the needs have changed for a family member.

If I am on a day shift, we support all the family members with getting up when they are ready (there are no set times, we’re not an institute we’re a home). For some family members I provide personal care in the form of supporting to take a shower, a bath or a flannel wash. My goal around personal care is to make that family member feel as safe, dignified and comfortable as possible, as I can only imagine how daunting and embarrassing it must be. It is important to me that family members have the option to choose their own clothes to wear, whilst anticipating their needs and wants to the best of my ability. I will then assist that person getting dressed and to look and feel their best, which could involve a shave for the gents, or a new hairstyle for the ladies. Doing the ladies and gents hair is one of my favourite parts of personal care, I love being able to encourage family members to have a pamper, the ladies particularly like having their makeup and nails done.

For some of our family members, communication can be in different forms, so the importance of building trust is really important. Some of our family members are non-verbal, or have minimal communication abilities, which makes building this trust sometimes a bit delicate as everyone is different. A lot of supporting our non-verbal family members is about active listening and creating a safe, comfortable and supportive environment using mindful communication techniques such as paying close attention to body language, using eye contact to show I am engaged with them, and being aware of my posture as to not come across as imposing.

During breakfast we often sit all together and enjoy music and chats with meals, which is not only a great way to encourage family members to eat, but I’ve also had some of my most memorable laughs that way too! A lot of our family members require support with their food and drinks, this can vary from supporting them with eating their meal, to spoon-loading or nurturing. I have found that supporting someone with their meal is a great way to connect and start building trust too. Whilst some family members sit close together, hold hands and chat the whole way through, some of our more introverted family members prefer more space and time to connect. A particularly rewarding part of my role is when you can actually see that with every word over a meal, it becomes easier for family members to open up and form their own connections.

Another really important responsibility of mine is using Caredocs, a system to record daily notes to document the morning for each family member I support, if it wasn’t documented, it didn’t happen. I do this throughout the day, normally after breakfast, mid-afternoon and just before my shift ends - it takes about 2-3 hours out of my 12-hour shifts to complete. Not only is this part of our compliance, but it allows us to share what the family members get up to, as well as feeding back to the clinical team about any changes/concerns/thoughts that we noticed throughout the day.

Afternoon

Lunch is different every day, with alternatives served for those who may not like, or cannot eat the main options. For our family members on soft or pureed diets, we always have wonderfully decorated desserts and main meals. We serve snacks and drinks of family members' choice throughout the day, and we love helping them to eat a well-balanced diet and keep hydrated.

After lunch, some family members choose to rest, while others enjoy a quiet moment with the TV, a good book in the Edenmore library, or a creative activity – always with a cup of tea close by. The afternoons offer plenty of ways to stay engaged in ways that feel familiar and meaningful. Some of our gentlemen enjoy painting, building, or helping out with maintenance tasks – one even recently "interviewed" for a spot on the maintenance team and helped paint the hallways. Many of our ladies find comfort and purpose in folding laundry, tidying tables, or doing the dishes – continuing the everyday routines that feel like home. There are also themed music sessions, special visits (including some unforgettable ones from the local zoo), and even the occasional singalong led by Manager Gayle herself - depending on your taste in music, of course!

For family members with more complex needs or limited communication, we focus on sensory experiences which include music, lights, textures, or spending time in the garden. When the weather’s nice, we love going out into the Ilfracombe community using our car, and even in colder months, a trip to the park in a big coat can be a lovely change of scenery.

Evening

When it comes to a night shift it's all about making sure our family members feel safe and comfortable in their home, and helping them to get relaxed and unwind before bed. This looks different for every family member and sometimes midnight dancing and singing is what they want to do!

Night shifts involve supporting everyone to reposition in bed, help everyone use the toilet and stay hydrated overnight. This can also involve comforting some of our family members as the switch between day and night can be a little unsettling at times, so we keep things gentle and soothing.

Either way, night or day, there is always something to keep you busy, and always something to be done, at least at Edenmore we can have a laugh and a cuppa whilst doing it!

The Heart of Care

It's been a whale of a journey so far for me at Edenmore, understandably with lots of ups and downs which is something to be expected working in such a fast-paced environment with lots going on! The most challenging part of my role is the emotional demand, as seeing family members health decline as they move on in their journey is really hard. Being so involved in people’s lives, it is very easy to grow attached to them and their wonderful relatives who visit often, and it can be really upsetting to come in to work one day and hear they won’t be back. We’re often invited to funerals, and we receive the most thoughtful thank you cards which means the world to us because it reminds us just how important our job really is.

Although I think it is such an honour, and so beautiful to guide and support people on their final journeys, it really does take a toll sometimes. It is a blessing to feel things so deeply, and I have learnt it is never just me, there is always someone to wipe my tears when it gets too much and remind the team that we all have each other.

Care isn't for everyone, and it is definitely something you have to love doing, day in and day out. I admire each and every one of my team members who work so hard to support the home (and keep up with my drama of course!). My team's love for the family members and each other is uplifting and I couldn't think of a better group of people to work with. We have made friends for life and can be a challenging but rewarding job, it's so important that you work together and get on.

But honestly? Our family members are the ones who make every day that little bit brighter. We’re so lucky to spend time with such incredible people. To learn about their lives, their careers, their travels, their quirks. No two days are ever the same because no two people are. And that’s what makes this job so special.’

To find out more  about Edenmore see here: https://www.edenmorenursinghome.com/

A Wimbledon Afternoon Tea with Sundial Care Home.

Sundial Care Home in Tipton St John, Devon, marked Wimbledon this year with a traditional afternoon tea for its family members (residents).

Family members gathered in the home’s bright and spacious lounge, which overlooks the home’s beautiful three acre grounds, to watch the Wimbledon doubles matches. The setting provided a homely and welcoming space for everyone to enjoy the event together.

Home-baked scones, served with fresh cream and strawberry jam, were served with tea, whilst family members watched the matches and spoke about past tournaments. Many shared memories of following Wimbledon in earlier years, sparking discussions about favourite players and memorable moments from previous competitions.

The residential care home, near Sidmouth, regularly organises events and activities that reflect national traditions and the personal interests of those living there. These occasions are part of Sundial’s responsive approach to care, ensuring that individual histories, preferences, and social needs are recognised and supported through meaningful engagement and shared experiences.

It was a successful afternoon that brought family members and team together to enjoy good company, conversation, and a much-loved British tradition.

If you would like to learn more about Sundial Care Home, please visit https://www.sundialcare.com/lifes-journey-continued/

Respite by the Sea: A Devon Care Home’s Approach to Meaningful Short Breaks

A recent respite stay at Edenmore Nursing Home in Ilfracombe has shown how a change of scenery can offer a welcome break for individuals living in city-based care homes.

Edenmore recently welcomed Robert, a gentleman from a Bristol care home who was looking for a short break away from city home-life. He chose a care home in the North Devon town of Ilfracombe as a peaceful retreat, drawing on personal memories of holidays he had enjoyed there in the past.

During his stay, daily one-to-one support was in place, made possible by his choice to privately fund the additional care, giving him the opportunity to explore the local area and enjoy the fresh sea air. When he chose to spend time at the home rather than out in the community, he can often be found in the conservatory playing cards or sitting in the garden with his pipe, something he loves to do, whatever the weather, all while overlooking the sea. He has struck up a connection with Harry, another resident (known as family members to the team at the care home) and formed a friendship with Sarah, Edenmore’s Administrator, though he jokingly refers to her as his PA, since she’s always printing things out for him!

Gayle Cooper, Edenmore’s Home Manager shared “What started as a short two-week stay has now been extended to a month, a clear sign of how much Robert has enjoyed his time here. At Edenmore our ethos is centred on the continuation of life, recognising that everyone is on their own journey, and that care should support people to keep living in ways that feel meaningful to them."

If you’d like to have a glimpse in to life at Edenmore Nursing Home, please visit our Facebook page Edenmore Nursing Home - Facebook or if interested in short-term or long-term stay please Contact Us .

 

Sundial Care Home Opens its Gardens for Tipton St John

Sundial Care Home near Sidmouth, Devon, welcomed local green thumbs, garden enthusiasts and members of the community into their beautiful three acre grounds, for the Tipton St John Open Gardens event. The event invites members of the community to explore the village gardens and greenery, whilst enjoying plant stalls, coffee and cake, and browsing small local businesses.

Sundial’s landscaped garden features sweeping countryside views across the River Otter and East Hill, a putting green, and a wide variety of plants and flowers that attract local wildlife. One particular plant the home takes pride in, is their impressive 8-foot, pink rhododendron shrub, now over 20 years old. Planted by the home's late gardener, it has continued to attract attention ever since.

Visitors admired the displays of roses, foxgloves, geraniums, lobelia, fuchsia, hydrangeas, and mature trees, as well as the work of the gardening club, where family members (residents) have been growing tomatoes, sweet peas and beans in the greenhouse.

A Sundial event wouldn’t be complete without a visit from therapy llamas, Harry and George from Llamas4Good CIC. As family members, visitors and other members of the community gathered, the llamas relaxed in the sunshine, grazing on the grass and enjoyed plenty of fuss. The home was also included in the children’s scavenger hunt across the village, seeing visitors of all ages coming and going.

This year’s Open Gardens event also coincided with Care Home Open Week, giving visitors the opportunity to learn more about Sundial and explore the home further if they wish.

“The Open Gardens was such a huge success! Thank you to all who came to visit us to look around our gardens, we are very lucky to have such wonderful views on our doorstep.” – Liz Thompson, Home Manager

Sundial Care Home’s participation in Tipton St John’s Open Gardens event reflected their focus on maintaining caring connections within the local community. Well-led events and opportunities for family members to engage with visitors, neighbours and local organisations help encourage social interaction, promote independence and a sense of belonging.

To learn more about Sundial Care Home, please visit https://www.sundialcare.com/live-with-us/

Military Day Trips for Heanton Nursing Home Residents in Barnstaple, Devon

Residents (fondly referred to as family members) at Heanton Nursing Home recently enjoyed a day out in Barnstaple town centre during a public event organised by North Devon Council, which featured vintage military vehicles, music, and a commemorative short film shown in the Pannier Market. The vehicles were displayed outside the Museum of Barnstaple and North Devon, drawing plenty of interest from the community. The purpose of the day out was to offer a sense of nostalgia and familiarity, with Heanton team members supporting family members throughout the day as they connected with the community through conversation and shared experiences.

Located very close to RM Chivenor military base in Barnstaple, the area holds a special connection for many residents, several of whom have military backgrounds. From the garden, they can often see helicopters overhead and occasionally spot military personnel while out in the community.

One of Heanton’s family members was Angela, a former RAF nurse whose professional background and family history are closely tied to the armed forces. Seeing the military transport displays and classic entertainment brought back familiar sights that resonated with her lived experience. Along with Angela, Mark was especially taken with the vintage vehicle showcase and historical exhibits. Inspired by the visit, he later printed out several photos from the day and proudly displayed them in his room, a small but meaningful gesture that speaks to how much the event meant to him.

While the activities sparked plenty of smiles, music and photo opportunities, the deeper value of the day lay in its connection to shared culture and tradition.

Heanton Nursing Home remains committed to delivering care, including support for people with complex needs, through meaningful experiences that go beyond the walls of the home whether through engaging with the local community, celebrating personal histories, or supporting emotional well-being through thoughtful activities. 

For more information about Heanton Nursing Home activities please visit Activities in Care – Heanton Nursing Home

Nursing Home Celebrates Fish and Chip Day with Classic Chippy Experience

Hatherleigh Nursing Home, near Okehampton in Devon, marked National Fish and Chip Day with a themed celebration that brought the traditional British chippy experience straight to the home.

Family members (residents) were served freshly cooked fish, golden chips, and mushy peas, all presented in traditional takeaway boxes and wrapped in chip shop-style newspaper. For some individuals, the smells, textures, and familiar tastes evoked happy moments of sharing fish and chips with loved ones, or gathering at the local chip shop on a Friday evening as a child.

The homes dining room was decorated complete with picnic-style tablecloths, newspaper placemats, and classic café style bottles of ketchup and vinegar. Decorations such as fisherman’s nets and a flock of pesky seagulls hanging from the ceiling brought the seaside atmosphere to life. To complete the scene, sea shanties played in the background via the home’s Amazon Alexa, adding to the immersive mealtime experience.

“Thank you to the team once again for always decorating the dining room so beautifully, so our family members can enjoy an immersive experience.” – Current Team Member

National Fish and Chip Day at Hatherleigh was more than just a celebration of a much-loved British tradition, but a reminder of the power of food, music, and shared moments to bring people together. The day was part of the Devon Nursing Home’s ongoing commitment to offering well-led engaging, meaningful events and activities that promote wellbeing, identity, mealtime experience and a continuation life.

To find out more about Hatherleigh Nursing Home, visit https://www.hatherleighnursinghome.com/live-with-us/activities-in-care/

Edenmore Nursing Home Steps Back to 1940s

Edenmore Nursing Home recently celebrated VE Day in style with a lively 1940s themed party at the Ilfracombe Home. Held in one of the home’s dining rooms, the event welcomed all residents (referred to as family members) and their loved ones to drop in and enjoy the celebrations.

The morning was busy as the care team decorated the home, creating an atmosphere that transported everyone back to the 1940s. Meanwhile, the kitchen team was preparing traditional food and desserts, including homemade bread, spam sandwiches, scones, and a delicious high tea. In the afternoon, the music was switched to fit the 1940s theme, and the team donned their best costumes. There were even prizes for the best dressed male and female, which added a bit of extra fun to the celebrations!

As the day went on, the team, family members, and their guests fully embraced the themed atmosphere. Some family members were inspired to share stories from the past, reflecting on the importance of VE Day. The party also featured a female vocalist (drum roll, please...) performed by none other than DJ Jude! The war time music had everyone singing, dancing, and enjoying the energy of the day.

The 1940s themed party not only celebrated history but also provided a wonderful opportunity for families to come together, have fun, and make new memories in a caring and safe environment. Gayle Cooper, Manager of Edenmore, said: ‘We had so much fun commemorating this day with our family members and their guests, thank you to all who celebrated with us!’

Although Edenmore is home to people living with various types of Dementia, the team believes this should never stop anyone from living life to the fullest. With regularly planned activities and events like VE Day, the team strive to provide a high quality of life for their family members. This approach promotes dignity, respect, and empowerment, creating a culture of compassionate care.

For more about life at Edenmore Nursing Home, 

visit: www.edenmorenursinghome.com

Work/Life Balance: Evolve Care Group support Team Leaders Cricket Aspirations

At Heanton Nursing Home, part of the Evolve Care Group, team members are supported in pursuing their passions both inside and outside of the care home. Dinil Varghese, a Team Leader and avid cricketer, is a shining example of this support in action.

Dinil Varghese has been playing cricket for twenty years and is about to start his fourth at Braunton Cricket Club. "I am a bowler, but I really enjoy batting in the number 8 position" he shared. "Last year, our team became league champions and earned a promotion to a higher division. I am incredibly grateful for the sponsorship from Evolve Care Group this season to defend our title!"

In his two years working at the Barnstaple care home, he has progressed from a Care Assistant to Team Leader and now aspires to become a Care Practitioner. "Heanton has supported me hugely throughout my career, my colleagues, managers, and training leads have been so fantastic!" he added.

Heanton support not just personal development, but also the personal passions and well-being of their team. Whether it’s advancing in a care career or thriving on the cricket pitch, the team at Heanton believes that when individuals are supported holistically, everyone benefits — especially the people they care for. Dinil’s journey is just one of many inspiring stories that reflect the nurturing and empowering culture at Heanton Nursing Home. 

To find out more about Heanton Nursing Home visit: https://www.heantonnursinghome.com/

VE Day Tribute: Corporal Pete Shepherd’s Legacy Lives On

As we mark the 80th anniversary of VE Day, we remember former Corporal Pete Shepherd – a man whose life has been shaped by service, strength, and love.

Pete joined the Royal Corps of Transport in 1965 at age 20. Over 12 years, he served five tours in Northern Ireland, including high-risk bomb disposal work during The Troubles. His courage in the face of danger helped lay the foundations for modern bomb disposal techniques. Pete also served in Germany and Bahrain.

Decades later, Pete was diagnosed with PTSD, a reminder of the long-term impact of military service. His story highlights the importance of charities like the Felix Fund, which support the mental health of bomb disposal personnel.

Despite hardships, Pete fondly recalls light-hearted moments, from babysitting a rabbit to mischievous regimental pranks. For his service, he received the General Service Medal with Northern Ireland clasp.

In 1971, Pete met and married Sally just two months after meeting – a love story that has lasted 53 years. After leaving the Army, he worked for 30 years at a Spam board factory, showing the same dedication he brought to military life.

Now living with a Dementia, Pete has also faced cancer and major heart surgery. His daughter Claire describes the heartbreak of placing him in care, saying, “Watching his dementia progress feels like constant grief.”

Life at Heanton

Since moving into Heanton Nursing Home in April 2025, Pete has been supported with care that honours his identity. His room is filled with military memorabilia, and he’s still proudly referred to as “Sergeant Shepherd.” His salutes and discipline reflect the deep imprint of his service, offering a sense of continuity even as his memory fades.

Dementia and Complex Care, Shaped by Identity

Heanton Nursing Home, based in North Devon, specialises in supporting adults living on complex journeys, including Dementia, mental health conditions and other long-term needs requiring compassionate and consistent care. Focusing on truly understanding each person, their history, identity and what matters to them – enabling the right support without restraint or sedation.

At Heanton, we believe no one is "challenging" when their needs are met with compassion, understanding and their independence is encouraged. At Heanton Nursing Home, life continues with dignity, choice and purpose.

To read the full story please visit Honouring Identity in Dementia: A Devon Veteran’s Story - Heanton Nursing Home

Celebrating Victory Day at Hatherleigh Nursing Home

Hatherleigh Nursing Home, in Okehampton, Devon, recently marked VE Day with a celebration that brought together family members (residents), relatives and the team to honour the 80th anniversary of Victory Day.

The dining room was decorated with Union Jack flags, red, white, and blue napkins, and floral tablecloths, creating a bright and patriotic atmosphere. Each place setting featured neatly arranged crockery on red placemats, with colourful cups adding a finishing touch.

A generous buffet was served, offering a mix of savoury bites, fresh salads, and classic British desserts. From cold meats and pastries to BBQ chicken and colourful veggie options, there was something for everyone to enjoy. VE Day–themed buns, gateau, and strawberries and cream also rounded off the meal perfectly. As everyone tucked in, live music from guest performer Kelly added a nostalgic backdrop to the day.

Administrator Tamsin, shared her appreciation, saying: “Can I just say a massive thank you to everyone for making VE day such a great event. Everyone was full of joy, and it was amazing to see so many smiles and tears of joy. Such a wonderful day.”

Home Manager, Ashley shared, “Some beautiful smiles, reflective tears and dance moves that shaped the day...but special thanks has to go to Faye and team for preparing a fabulous buffet lunch and Tamsin for organising and decorating the event.”

The celebration was a chance to reflect, connect, and enjoy meaningful moments together, and a reminder of the strength of community at Hatherleigh Nursing Home.

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To find out more about Hatherleigh Nursing Home, visit https://www.hatherleighnursinghome.com/live-with-us/

New Season for the Sundial Garden Club

Sundial Care Home, located near Sidmouth, is marking the start of spring in its gardening club, where family members (residents) are already seeing the fruits of their labour. Hydrangea cuttings taken last year have rooted well, sweet peas have germinated, and recently the group have begun sowing tomatoes, beans, and a selection of flowers using seeds collected from the Exeter Seed Swap.

Once the seedlings are strong enough, they’re transferred to the home’s greenhouse and garden areas, contributing to the wider space that’s enjoyed by both family members and local wildlife throughout the year.

The gardening club provides a calm, supportive space for family members to enjoy meaningful activity. It’s a familiar routine that supports mobility, encourages independence and decision-making, and brings a shared sense of purpose, mirroring life at home.

Sue and Terry, whose loved one once lived at Sundial, now volunteer regularly and continue to be part of the Sundial family. As part of their annual Boxing Day family raffle, they thoughtfully chose to make a contribution towards the Gardening Club—something that has been deeply appreciated by everyone involved. “We now volunteer, as the team were so fabulous to mum and us, when we come to the home, we are always greeted like family” .

As a new season begins, the gardening club continues to thrive, rooted in care, community, and a shared love of growing. The Care Home near Sidmouth look forward to what this season brings to its garden.

 

To find out more about Sundial Care Home, visit https://www.sundialcare.com/activities-in-care/