Lighting Up the Sky and the Community at a North Devon Nursing Home

By the time the first firework burst above the trees at Heanton Nursing Home, the grounds were filled with families, children in bright coats and people arriving with umbrellas. There was laughter, conversation and that unmistakable sense of community.

Residents (who they fondly refer to as family members) were wrapped in blankets and supported outside so they could be part of it all. Seeing them among the crowd, smiling as the fireworks lit up the sky, was one of the highlights of the evening. Many visitors commented on how special it was to see everyone, young and old, sharing the night side by side.

The BBQ ran non-stop, with people queueing for hot food made on-site using locally sourced meats from Reeds Butchers in Braunton, the same butcher that provides the meals enjoyed by family members every day. “You can taste when something’s local,” one visitor said.

Several people mentioned they hadn’t planned to do anything for Bonfire Night this year but decided to come along after seeing Heanton’s invitation. What might have been an ordinary evening at home instead became a night filled with laughter and conversation. Local councillor Graham Bell attended with his family and spoke with team members and visitors throughout the evening, sharing that sense of community that filled the grounds.

By the end of the night, £226 had been raised, which will go directly towards making Christmas special for the family members who call Heanton home. As people began to leave, almost everyone said the same thing, that they hoped this would happen again next year.

Although Heanton is known in the community as a complex nursing home, evenings like this show there’s so much more to it than that. It is a home full of life, laughter and connection, a place where family members are supported to take part, and where the community is always welcome to join in.

It’s a reminder that complex care doesn’t mean life has to be lived apart.

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A Remembrance Day Tribute: Corporal Pete Shepherd’s Legacy Lives On

On Remembrance Day, we pause to honour former Corporal Pete Shepherd, because for him, service didn’t end when the uniform was folded away. It became part of who he is.

Pete joined the Royal Corps of Transport in 1965 at age 20. Over 12 years, he served five tours in Northern Ireland, including high-risk bomb disposal work during The Troubles. His courage in the face of danger helped lay the foundations for modern bomb disposal techniques. Pete also served in Germany and Bahrain.

Decades later, Pete was diagnosed with PTSD, a reminder of the long-term impact of military service. His story highlights the importance of charities like the Felix Fund, which support the mental health of bomb disposal personnel.

Despite hardships, Pete fondly recalls light-hearted moments, from babysitting a rabbit to mischievous regimental pranks. For his service, he received the General Service Medal with Northern Ireland clasp.

In 1971, Pete met and married Sally just two months after meeting – a love story that has lasted 53 years. After leaving the Army, he worked for 30 years at a Spam board factory, showing the same dedication he brought to military life.

Now living with a Dementia, Pete has also faced cancer and major heart surgery. His daughter Claire describes the heartbreak of placing him in care, saying, “Watching his dementia progress feels like constant grief.”

Life at Heanton

Since moving into Heanton Nursing Home in April 2025, Pete has been supported with care that honours his identity. His room is filled with military memorabilia, and he’s still proudly referred to as “Sergeant Shepherd.” His salutes and discipline reflect the deep imprint of his service, offering a sense of continuity even as his memory fades.

Dementia and Complex Care, Shaped by Identity

Heanton Nursing Home, based in North Devon, specialises in supporting adults living on complex journeys, including Dementia, mental health conditions and other long-term needs requiring compassionate and consistent care. Focusing on truly understanding each person, their history, identity and what matters to them – enabling the right support without restraint or sedation.

At Heanton, we believe no one is "challenging" when their needs are met with compassion, understanding and their independence is encouraged. At Heanton Nursing Home, life continues with dignity, choice and purpose.

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Barnstaple Care Home Fundraiser: Classic Cars & BBQ

H1 – Funds Raised in a complex care home in North Devon

On Sunday 21st September, the peaceful village of Heanton Punchardon was filled with the rumble of engines and the smell of a sizzling BBQ. Heanton Nursing Home welcomed more than 20 classic vehicles from the North Devon Sports and Classic Cars Club, turning a quiet corner of North Devon into a lively celebration. For residents (family members), their loved ones and the local community, it was a chance to admire the gleaming cars, share stories and enjoy the warmth of a true community gathering.

The owners of the cars were just as thrilled as residents, proudly lifting bonnets and swapping stories about their beloved classics. Laughter and chatter carried across the drive. “It brought such a wave of nostalgia,” said Home Manager Abi Denford. “You could see the joy on people’s faces as they shared their stories and for those living with dementia on a complex journey, those moments of connection through nostalgia are especially powerful.”

St Augustine’s Church, right next door to the home, was wonderfully supportive. Announcing the event during Sunday service. As a result, several people came straight over afterwards, including Rev. Glyn Lewry, who spent a long time chatting and admiring the cars.

The BBQ was a real hit, with locally sourced meats provided by Reeds Butchers in Braunton. Alongside the food, there were lots of warm conversations about the home, dementia, and interest in Heanton’s household model of care.

The event carried a special meaning for the home. It had been inspired by a much-loved family member who was once a mechanic and often asked the team about cars. When the idea of a major event was raised, he was especially excited at the thought of a car show, often talking about how much he wanted to see the vehicles and sharing stories of cars being restored. Sadly, he passed away earlier this year before the show could take place.  In the week leading up to the event, heavy rain fell every day, with forecasts predicting an 80% chance of showers. But, as the cars began to arrive, the clouds cleared, and the sun shone for the rest of the afternoon. Every soft-top roof stayed down, and people were able to sit outside to enjoy the warmth. The care homes Administrator Sabrina said “I’m not religious but I feel he had something to do with it …”

Plans are already underway for an even bigger Classic Car Show in 2026. The afternoon also had a bigger purpose; this year’s event raised a total of £365.35 for Alzheimer’s Research UK.

Heanton Nursing Home: Where Barbara’s Story Continues

Barbara Vivien Walsh was born in 1947 in Winchester, Hampshire. A lifelong passion of books, languages, and theatre, she studied French literature in Switzerland, performed on stage in London, and later built a meaningful career as an occupational therapist. Her life has been rich with learning, compassion, and quiet strength.

Her mind was exceptional. By age three, she could read, write, and speak fluently. However aside from her academic talents and intelligence, Barbara is kind. A love for animals has always been part of who Barbara is. She cared for two horses, attended horse shows, rode in point-to-point races, and confidently jumped high fences. The horses adored her, and the bond between them was clear.

But dementia does not recognise such achievements. It arrives quietly, then takes boldly, not just memories, but confidence, independence, and the ability to navigate day-to-day life.

Barbara’s diagnosis came in 2020, though the signs had appeared earlier. At first, she tried to carry on as normal. But when her beloved dog Monty died in 2023, everything changed. She began hiding things she couldn’t manage anymore, her phone, her computer, as fear and confusion crept in. Her world, once full of knowledge and connection, began to shrink.

Barbara now lives at Heanton Nursing Home, a place where care is centred on the person, not just the condition. When she first arrived, it took time for her to settle. Like many people living with a Dementia, trust was not immediate. But the team at Heanton didn’t rush. They listened. They adapted. They showed her she was still in control of her life.

Now, Barbara’s independence is supported in small but meaningful ways. When she wants to talk, to laugh, or even have a good rant someone is there, simply listening. Sometimes, that’s all that’s needed.

The bond between Barbara and the team has grown into something deeply personal. She even refers to one carer as her “adoptive daughter.” That kind of connection can’t be written into a care plan, it grows from compassion, consistency, and the belief that dementia does not erase identity.

At Heanton, we understand that dementia is a complex journey, one that takes courage and care to navigate. Our role is to walk alongside each person, never ahead of them, always with respect and love.

Barbara’s story continues here, not just with safety, but with meaning, dignity, and heart.

 

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North Devon Care Home Welcomes Families for a Summer BBQ

Heanton Nursing Home brought a feel-good summer event for its residents (fondly referred to as family members) and their relatives with a summer BBQ. The event, hosted in the home’s beautiful garden, was a great success, with many relatives taking time off work to be there.

The BBQ served up some seriously tasty, locally sourced meats thanks to Reeds Butchers in Braunton, fresh, flavourful, and a real hit! This wasn’t just a one-off either, locally sourced meats have been added to the main menu! It’s a recent change the home is very excited about! The kitchen team love working with such great quality ingredients, and it’s already making a difference at mealtimes. There was also a great selection of 0% alcohol drinks on offer, which went down really well with everyone there. Alongside plenty of lawn games for everyone to enjoy.

The home recognises the importance of meaningful time with loved ones, and providing opportunities for families to enjoy the outdoors together is always met with warmth. It’s a simple but meaningful way to support people’s wellbeing and help maintain strong family connections.

The Home Manager Abigail Denford said “It was such a lovely afternoon. Seeing families enjoying time together, sharing food, and having a few laughs in the garden. It reminded me just how important the simple, everyday things are, like having a BBQ on a sunny day. If you were in your own home and the sun was shining, you’d probably do exactly that. So why shouldn’t we do it here, too? This is our home, our family."

The Heanton team put so much care and heart into bringing the event to life, it’s clear this place means more to them than just a job.

 

Life on the Water: Dirk Kennedys Identity at Heanton Nursing Home

At Heanton Nursing Home, we believe that every person carries a story worth telling. One that continues well beyond age or diagnosis and Dirk Kennedy’s life is a powerful reminder of that. Now living with a Dementia, Dirk is no longer able to write every word of that story himself. But it’s far from lost. What started as an effort to honour him has grown into something more: the early chapters of an autobiography, still in progress. What follows is just a glimpse. Because Dirk’s story is still unfolding but what you will come to understand, is simple: Dirk Kennedy’s life is anything but ordinary.

Dirk had always intended to write his life story, a project encouraged by his mother, who believed his experiences were worth sharing. A wartime birth in a Glasgow bomb shelter, early years spent living aboard a sailing boat, and a youth filled with clever ideas. His life was full of remarkable detail. As a teenager, he built a boat in his bedroom and launched it into the River Thames. As an adult travelled across England in a caravan pulled by a Clydesdale horse! He went on to explore art, writing, and craft! Sharing his stories through poetry, spoon carving, and exhibitions. His time at sea left a strong impression, and after surviving a dangerous storm and being thrown overboard, he began painting the ocean as he had experienced it firsthand.

Dirk is also remembered for his kindness. Whether it was cooking for others, campaigning for safer roads, or helping neighbours, he always looked out for those around him. His values, shaped by Buddhist teachings and a belief in living simply, remain at the heart of who he is But like many, Dirk’s journey took a turn when he was diagnosed with dementia. 

The diagnosis was never something he fully understood, and with time, it became harder for him to finish tasks, remember details, or continue writing his long-dreamed-of autobiography. That’s where Heanton Nursing Home comes in. To help preserve Dirk’s legacy, Rafaella Faccio at Heanton’s communications team is working closely with his family to complete his autobiography. It’s more than a project; it’s a tribute. A chance for Dirk to hold his life story in his hands, not as something lost to dementia, but as something reclaimed. 

Living at Heanton, Dirk is surrounded by a team that recognises not just his needs, but his identity. He is still drawing sailing maps, using it to navigate around the home, and watching the boats drift by at Fremington Quay. He kindness still shines around the home, steadying wheelchairs, washing dishes and holds tightly to his independence, choosing his own clothes and decisions that keep him feeling like himself. Because here at Heanton, we believe dementia doesn’t erase a person. It just asks us to see them more clearly and walk beside them with compassion, dignity, and love. it stands as a powerful example of how personalised care can preserve identity, not just in the present, but for the future. 

 

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Military Day Trips for Heanton Nursing Home Residents in Barnstaple, Devon

Residents (fondly referred to as family members) at Heanton Nursing Home recently enjoyed a day out in Barnstaple town centre during a public event organised by North Devon Council, which featured vintage military vehicles, music, and a commemorative short film shown in the Pannier Market. The vehicles were displayed outside the Museum of Barnstaple and North Devon, drawing plenty of interest from the community. The purpose of the day out was to offer a sense of nostalgia and familiarity, with Heanton team members supporting family members throughout the day as they connected with the community through conversation and shared experiences.

Located very close to RM Chivenor military base in Barnstaple, the area holds a special connection for many residents, several of whom have military backgrounds. From the garden, they can often see helicopters overhead and occasionally spot military personnel while out in the community.

One of Heanton’s family members was Angela, a former RAF nurse whose professional background and family history are closely tied to the armed forces. Seeing the military transport displays and classic entertainment brought back familiar sights that resonated with her lived experience. Along with Angela, Mark was especially taken with the vintage vehicle showcase and historical exhibits. Inspired by the visit, he later printed out several photos from the day and proudly displayed them in his room, a small but meaningful gesture that speaks to how much the event meant to him.

While the activities sparked plenty of smiles, music and photo opportunities, the deeper value of the day lay in its connection to shared culture and tradition.

Heanton Nursing Home remains committed to delivering care, including support for people with complex needs, through meaningful experiences that go beyond the walls of the home whether through engaging with the local community, celebrating personal histories, or supporting emotional well-being through thoughtful activities. 

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